To make a positive change to your reality you must focus on the positive. This is a habit that can be consciously developed. What is spoken from your mouth is the best place to start working on the positive. If you have a friend, family member, and/or co-worker who will agree to kindly remind you of your goal, your words will soon be consistently positive. Also, you need to become conscious of what you think. Catch yourself when you are mulling and daydreaming. Ask yourself what you were allowing your mind to dwell on. Replace negative thinking with positive words or thoughts. Choose to change the direction of your thinking toward your desired life.