LAYING THE FOUNDATION 7. Eliminating Resistors When something bad happens, people have a need to place blame for the incident on someone or something. If we blame ourselves, we feel guilt. If we assign blame to another person or people, then we often experience unforgiveness, which can lead to bitterness. If we place the blame on God or the cosmos, the result is unbelief, doubt, and fatalism. If we manage to keep from holding ourselves, others, or God responsible, we still have painful memories and the associated hurt that remains. Guilt, unforgiveness, unbelief, and hurt are the most common and potent resistors preventing us from changing our lives to a more positive reality. | ||
